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Who we are and Who we Become

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 Dear Readers, We are all on that rat race of achieving something in life to such an extent that we often forget "What we are" and "Who we have become." Lets just pause for a moment and question ourself , "Is this who I am?", "Is this what all I am capable of?", " Is this what life is all about?". If we consciously seek those answers, we would end up in lot many overwhelming answers where in we start questioning our own existence on this planet Earth. Now take a step ahead and think, what could be the possible effect, if we could get a chance again to start something really new, start something really small, start a new life? Would it be so hard to change that one thing that we really want to change within us? Would it be so hard to start inculcating that one thing which we always wanted to have ? Would it be so hard to start being that person whom we really want to be? If your answer is "NO", your time starts now. Get up...

Its time for Introspection!!!!

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  Dear Readers,      We are always on the verge of becoming someone else day by day and year by years. This is a reality which everyone has faced and has been facing. The idea of becoming someone else had been  rooted  in us from the very childhood. We always want to score that marks like the other classmate.👭 We always want to have those toys and dresses like the other neighbor.... We always want to get that degree like the other senior.....👥 We always want to have a job like the other friend.....💰 We always want to be in that position like the other manager...봈 We always want to have that house, like the other relative...🏠 And we always want to be WHO we really are NOT... and the story never ends....      Why is that we are always on the process of becoming another person  rather than discovering who we are? And the answer  is , we are "Not Courageous" !!!!!  We didn't have the Courage to be the person whom we re...

More to learn from the movie "Mili"

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  Dear Readers,          A very  Happy Ne w year !!! Here I am with a new content about  my first movie of the year 2023. I am here to talk about the Bollywood movie "Mili". I am not quite a movie person, but somehow wanted to watch a random one, where I ended up with this beautiful piece. So much related to a path of beautiful life!!! I hereby share few of my learnings from the movie "Mili". Scene 1 : The  father stops communicating to his Daughter Mili for being pointed on her modesty,  d espite her several attempts of creating conversation. Learning 1: Never make ego define your modesty. Scene 2 : Mili who gets locked up in the freezer of the restuarant at  -18 °C,  , struggles to get out of the freezing room,  tries everything to keep herself alive. Learning 2: Never give up, even when you are thrown away with storms. Scene 3 : Police being dishonest and playing with the family. Learning 3 : Its time to ov...

30 more days !!!!!

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 Dear Readers,      Today is the first day of the last month.. 30 more days left to complete this year 2022..!!! How quickly this year must have flown by to you!!!  Were you able to achieve all your resolutions this year.? Did you try anything to learn and grow? Have you tried anything to improve yourself ?What are your takeaways? Have you been grateful for the things that had  any positive impact on you ? If  your answer is NO, Dont panic!!! You still have  time to achieve some baby steps in the next 30 days.😀😀😀 Try these......I damn sure that you would like at least one of them.😊 ★ Take a moment to thank your body for b uilding a strong immune system and    keeping you alive these many years. ★ Be nicer and pat yourself  for all the struggles you have overcome through so far. ★ Feel grateful to be surrounded by different kinds of people from whom you were taught the life lessons. ★ Say thankyou to a family member who was alway...

Your impact matters...

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Dear Readers,    Have you ever thought how big impact can you make in the life of others? How positive you might have played a role in someones' day?  Someone out there still thinks that broader smile which you gave when you wished them.  Someone out there still smiles at the compliment you have given them.  Someone out there still laughs at the funny thing you had said.  Someone out there silently adores or admires you.  Someone out there still feels a depth of gratitude for the support/service you have given.   Remember!!, you are somewhere remembered, somewhere blessed, somewhere loved, somewhere admired and so on....   Your existence is making a positive difference, whether you see it or not.....Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Always mind what you impact. Negative or Positive ?The choice is yours...😇

Just Smile!!!

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   Dear Readers,     Imagine yourself to be  a beautiful flower for today. Here on I will mention the flower as "You".😇     You have just bloomed today as if you have taken birth from a mother. Its a new beginning with a  beautiful new world all around.     You have been physically connected to the strong supporting roots which has been  widely spread underneath the soft soil n ourishing you with essential nutrients to grow within as if the umbilic cord of your mother is connected  within the womb.      You and your colorful  petals  sway  side by side as the cool breeze of the morning wind  brushes you  carrying your pollen grains spilling all over as if the mother swinging you over a cradle.     Observe the sun who had just risen illuminating white vibrant light on you to blossom to your highest potential. You can feel the warmth of his sunlight as if the warmth of your ...

Step back and Pause

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  Dear readers,             At times we as humans are quite indulged in making our lives better and better., wanting more and more, and the journey never ends. During this path, do we actually pause and just take a moment to experience our inner self? NO !!. We don't !!. Because we are all  accelerating in the process of making our outer self better and best, even though its exhausting and frustrating.     Lets  us take a step back and pause for a moment. Take a breath and reflect on the things that could be changeable, visualize the things that we really want and get a clarity on what is our self all about?. Make some time to be with one  and only yourself. Once in a while try  to follow another short path instead of the daily path of struggles.      Just take a moment everyday on yourself to experience that inner calmness. I bet, if not a better life, you would surely receive an small d...